You know how people say "you can't love another until you love yourself”? I’ve heard that forever and only in fleeting moments have I really understand what that means.
Unconditional love is one of these things our unmanaged minds make...
There is nothing "wrong" with you.
You don't need to be "fixed". You're not broken, you are actually fabulous!
"Self improvement" chatter can be really heavy on the "fix it" and light on the "chill the eff out about it."