There are no broken parts to "fix" on you
Guess what?
There is nothing "wrong" with you.
You don't need to be "fixed". You're not broken, you are actually fabulous!
"Self improvement" chatter can be really heavy on the "fix it" and light on the "chill the eff out about it."
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How does your attitude smell?
Emotions are not soft. They aren’t touchy feely… they’re actually everything.
They are the reason you do anything.
Wanna make a million dollars? Experience financial freedom? Have a blissful marriage? Lose 20 pounds?...
Success & the three letter G-word
This memory came up on my personal FB page today... It reminded me of such an exciting and scary time... not at all unlike the one I'm in now.
August 25, 2015: It would have been one week before I (officially) went on my own full time.
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Your Motivational Triad
Today I want to introduce (or perhaps re-introduce) you to the motivational triad. This is a model of thinking, feeling and acting that has kept us humans alive as a species for thousands of years. It is this: avoid pain (watch out for the...
A trick for making a habit happy
If you're following along with my last few posts chronicling how to get unstuck with starting a new habit, Friday I talked about how to approach your plan to start with a new habit (or break an existing one) and gaining awareness of...
Start a new habit... break an old one
Yesterday I taught about the minimum baseline. Do one thing and do it consistently overtime until that becomes effortless.
The space between implementing the minimum baseline and it becoming effortless, is the subject of focus today....
Do the minimum.
Yesterday we looked at Holly's struggle with getting herself start a workout routine. She wasn't. She wanted to, but would constantly find something better to do, get distracted or even just watch the workout videos from the comfort of her...
Breaking the stuck addiction...
On a recent Get Unstuck Live Coaching call, my girl Holly asked for coaching on what to do about feeling unable to get herself to start a regular exercise habit that was once fairly easy. Since COVID, she's been on her own with her...
Commitment
If you’re committed to “figuring it out” then there is no need for panic. You’re going to figure it out: because you’re committed. Being in the mindset of “I’ll never figure this out”, is not helpful...
The marriage we always wanted...15 years later.
15 years ago today I walked down the isle with this guy.
Being a wife to this man has probably been the single most transformational experience in my life yet. Because these two fresh faced cuties had no effing idea how ridiculously challenging...
